Points for Honesty

I went out with Stephen again Sunday night (public holiday Monday) for dinner - mexican. After him stuffing around a fair bit with times.... Texts went a little something like this:

him: what time is good for you?
me:7pm
him: how about 8?
me: ok see you at 8
him: i might be a bit late, there's this bmx comp thing

Seriously get your sh*t together boy!!!

Same as last time, out then back to his place to watch tv, watch youtube and kiss and fool around a bit. He would have and seemed to want to have sex but I wasn't up for it on a 2nd date, I didnt know how i felt about him or how he felt about me.

We were chatting on facebook today and tonight so i sucked it up and tried to find out where i stood - didnt really want to be wasting my time, or end up sleeping with someone that doesn't really want anything more than a hook up. In the end it came out that he doesn't really 'do' girlfriends (not that that's what I asked him) as hes too busy and it ends up in fights. And he doesnt really know what he wants, the question he told me should be what do i want with him. I said that I wanted a guy to hang out with and date and for him to not turn into a jerk once we sleep together. His reply was that he's already a jerk.

I don't know if he's quirky, or emotionally a wanker or just wants to get some, but as my friend said 'no vag' How disappointing!

From 5th wheel to bmx

I got tricked into being free saturday night for my friend Janet's fiance's birthday party about 2 hrs drive away. I've met the fiance guy maybe 3-4 times we've said hi and that's about it. My other friend Julia was also going and bringing her super clingy boyfriend. Julia offered for me to drive to her place and go the rest of the way with her and her bf - stuck at a party as the 5th wheel until you and your bf want to leave? I don't think so!

Instead I met up with a new guy Stephen at the movies and we saw True Grit then went back to his place to watch tv and make out a bit. He rides bmx and a motorbike works in a bike store, don't really have much in common but he's good company and cute. I'm not really liking him or disliking him and im thinking it might be a defense mechanism so I don't get disappointed when there's not a 2nd date. Or maybe just haven't made my mind up as I feel like if he asked me i'd go out again but i wouldn't be destroyed if I didn't hear from him again. Maybe thats just the way you should feel after one date!