I went out with Stephen again Sunday night (public holiday Monday) for dinner - mexican. After him stuffing around a fair bit with times.... Texts went a little something like this:
him: what time is good for you?
me:7pm
him: how about 8?
me: ok see you at 8
him: i might be a bit late, there's this bmx comp thing
Seriously get your sh*t together boy!!!
Same as last time, out then back to his place to watch tv, watch youtube and kiss and fool around a bit. He would have and seemed to want to have sex but I wasn't up for it on a 2nd date, I didnt know how i felt about him or how he felt about me.
We were chatting on facebook today and tonight so i sucked it up and tried to find out where i stood - didnt really want to be wasting my time, or end up sleeping with someone that doesn't really want anything more than a hook up. In the end it came out that he doesn't really 'do' girlfriends (not that that's what I asked him) as hes too busy and it ends up in fights. And he doesnt really know what he wants, the question he told me should be what do i want with him. I said that I wanted a guy to hang out with and date and for him to not turn into a jerk once we sleep together. His reply was that he's already a jerk.
I don't know if he's quirky, or emotionally a wanker or just wants to get some, but as my friend said 'no vag' How disappointing!
Well, he's already told you everything you need to know: "he's a jerk". If you continue to spend time with him, you should expect that that's how he'll treat you.
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