'Gonna give this online thing a shot and see what happens' a quote from a guy... lets call him Dean - because that's his name...
Going through guys profile and I see Dean's photo... he looks a bit different has grown a 2 day stubble manicured beard thing which is a good look for him as it kind of disguises his double chin/fat around his neck - not being bitchy he's just a big guy. Dean and I dated in 2009. What made me have a little giggle was that coming across his new profile in 2011 and him saying he's going to give this online thing a shot making out like he's just made a profile and is going to see what happens. Kind of an extension of the 'i lost a bet or a mate made me this profile' excuses. His profile should read i've had an online dating profile for 2 yrs and know exactly what im doing.
In 2009 I tried to be a less superficial person, I decided that I would say yes to guys that I wasn't totally attracted to and go more on personality. We would all be old and saggy one day anyway so looks didn't really matter right? So I agreed to a date with Dean, he came and picked me up in his car, I think he must have called my phone and said he was waiting out front (what a gentleman haha) when i got in the car i had to put on the poker face - he was sitting in the drivers seat in gray jeans and his thighs were huge! I'd only seen a head and shoulders shot of him (learned my lesson to ask the guy for more photos) so it was really shocking. Now i'm not one to judge as im a size 18 but he was really really big and I wasn't expecting it.
Anyway Dean and I went on the date got along with him well and started to date. Thought maybe once you get to know someone they become more attractive. They don't. I ended up being a bitch to him because I knew I could cos I didn't see him as an equal and thank god he broke it off after one particular argument. Not my finest hour I know.
Moral of the story - date someone you are physically attracted to cos otherwise you might end up treating them really badly!
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