Since my last 'steve's so great we're going out Thursday night' post I've been let down. Steve is hopeless, texting during the week and he's all 'we should catch up soon' so I reply 'Thursday night (as organised by him) or early?' he then seems to have no recollection of the planned date he organised and says he had to work out work rosters by maybe Thursday. wtf?
Then chatting online with him - he's on all the time but never starts the convo with me, but when I start it with him he's all 'Hey Stranger!!! (wtf why am I a stranger you're the one not saying hi to me) we need to catch up soon. Apparently now Thursday should be fine and he will text me the time and place during the day on Thursday.
Having very high doubts after work I went to the shopping centre to look at straighteners (mines making a buzzing noise and when i set it to 160 degrees it takes it upon itself to go up to 262 degrees and won't budge) and get some Salsas Mex Grill for dinner. There was no text or call or chat online about Thursday night dinner even though it was Thursday night. Later that night i was online and so was he - so no excuse that he was too busy to contact me - I havent bothered started a conversation after he didnt come through Thursday, he'd only have a lame excuse that he hasn't bothered to contact me with.
My dilemma, and it's stupid, is how long do I leave him on my online dating contact list (the site i'm on has a contact list msn-like chat feature) and my facebook? The no brainer answer is that he should already be blocked and deleted but my pride or something is trying to think of what's a good time frame to delete someone in if you aren't cut at them you have just lost interest because they are weird and confusing and hopeless and you don't want to see them again? I didn't do it in a huff on Thursday night when the date didn't happen because that's what I expected to happen and all his first date magic had worn off and I just didn't care.
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