This guy Ronnie who I first chatted to for ages on msn, then met in person and got along well with and have had (fairly average) sex with on a few different occasions has been trying to get me to hang out with him aka have sex with him. He was trying to get me to go drive 30-40mins late last night to his house he shares with his sister and sleep over in his uncomfortable bed with one pillow and of course have blurh sex.
I told him the truth that I wanted to sleep in my own bed and have a nice sleep in. Then he tried to invite himself over to sleep in my bed and then say that i'd have a nice sleep in in his bed etc etc. I told him again how i wanted to have a sleep in alone. Some guys are just so one track minded and think they are so great in bed that they don't have to make it worth your while. I get he wanted sex but he didnt seem to get that I didn't want it whatsoever. He could have asked me to go out to the movies or something tonight and then it gets too late and asks me to stay like may be able to slime his way in but just 'Hey drive over and stay in my uncomfy bed' I don't want to so nothing you say is going to change that.
Then he started on the whole 'I could develop feelings for you' thing its so silly we've hung out we've had crap sex and neither of us has felt anything, doing it again isn't going to change anything. If there is casual sex going on the actual sex needs to be awesome.
I want someone to take me out for a late breakfast on this awesome sunny saturday, not someone that wants me to drive over late friday night to have blurh sex and a crap sleep.
not likin much bout this guy...... :(
ReplyDeleteNext time, make him buy you breakfast (or whatever meal you want) BEFORE you "put out". (An old-fashioned term that I love). He thinks of you as the girl who'll have crap sex with him in his crap bed, not the girl he has to be "extra" for.
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Thanks guys, the thing with Ronnie is I never wanted to date him... not interested in being his girlfriend. That's why I put out before getting a meal :)
ReplyDeleteJust want him to get the picture he's crap in bed and I don't want to see him again!